{"id":728,"date":"2025-12-24T02:19:44","date_gmt":"2025-12-24T02:19:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thuvien.thptmuongchieng.edu.vn\/?p=728"},"modified":"2025-12-24T02:19:44","modified_gmt":"2025-12-24T02:19:44","slug":"tom-tat-review-sach-chua-kip-lon-da-phai-truong-thanh-nhat-ky-chua-lanh-cua-nhung-tam-hon-dang-lon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thuvien.thptmuongchieng.edu.vn\/index.php\/2025\/12\/24\/tom-tat-review-sach-chua-kip-lon-da-phai-truong-thanh-nhat-ky-chua-lanh-cua-nhung-tam-hon-dang-lon\/","title":{"rendered":"[T\u00f3m T\u1eaft & Review S\u00e1ch] \u201cCh\u01b0a K\u1ecbp L\u1edbn \u0110\u00e3 Ph\u1ea3i Tr\u01b0\u1edfng Th\u00e0nh\u201d: Nh\u1eadt K\u00fd Ch\u1eefa L\u00e0nh C\u1ee7a Nh\u1eefng T\u00e2m H\u1ed3n \u0110ang L\u1edbn"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I. Gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u chung
Gi\u1eefa th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u201cl\u1edbn nhanh\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 theo k\u1ecbp nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u2013 ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn h\u01a1n, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n \u2013 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng tay \u00f4m l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111ang m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t: Ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a Tr\u1ecbnh Thanh V\u00e2n (T\u1edb l\u00e0 M\u00e2y).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n self-help \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1eadt nhanh, th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKh\u00f4ng sao c\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. C\u1ee9 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f4i n\u00e9t v\u1ec1 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u2013 T\u1edb l\u00e0 M\u00e2y
Tr\u1ecbnh Thanh V\u00e2n hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u00ean g\u1ecdi th\u00e2n quen T\u1edb l\u00e0 M\u00e2y \u2013 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi phong c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, mang h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh d\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn lao, m\u00e0 vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 \u0111ang k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb: \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 khi\u1ebfn ta t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi t\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u01a1i tr\u00fa \u1ea9n an y\u00ean cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

II. T\u00f3m t\u1eaft n\u1ed9i dung
Ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1t truy\u1ec7n tuy\u1ebfn t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadt k\u00fd m\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 ghi l\u1ea1i trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ch\u00eanh v\u00eanh nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed7i trang vi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi t\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n s\u00e2u, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u th\u1edf d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u mang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quen thu\u1ed9c m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n: \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc, s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng gi\u1eefa cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhanh. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u2013 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf b\u00ean, m\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng trang vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i nh\u1ecbp th\u1edf c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cd\u1ea1y d\u1ed7\u201d, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p hay c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 kh\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng sai khi bu\u1ed3n, kh\u00f4ng sai khi m\u1ec7t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n g\u0169i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9a ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee7 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ee7 \u1ea5m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

III. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n
    M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch g\u1eedi g\u1eafm ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang h\u1ea1n\u201d nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1eabn k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 th\u00eam n\u1eefa v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i h\u01a1n ai kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 khi ta bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 \u00f4m l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh sau nh\u1eefng c\u00fa ng\u00e3 \u0111au, bi\u1ebft cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, th\u1edf s\u00e2u v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh. Khi ta hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ta m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean m\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u201c D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, ch\u1ed7 kia kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. M\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn
      T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 xem nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0: m\u1ed7i gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i, m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i th\u1ee9c khuya ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady sau khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      \u201c Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi d\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00ec \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, d\u00f9 ch\u1eadm hay nhanh, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1eafc ta h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, t\u1ef1 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c r\u1ed3i.\u201d Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      1. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh d\u1ecb l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi
        Gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng va v\u1ea5p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ta th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i lu\u00f4n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u00f2ng tay \u0111\u00f3n m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh d\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t quanh ta. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ed3n \u00e0o ngo\u00e0i kia, \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111i\u1ec1u ta c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean l\u1edbn lao hay nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vang d\u1ed9i, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa c\u01a1m nh\u00e0, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, hay ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        Gia \u0111\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, v\u1eabn l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd hay gi\u1ea5u \u0111i n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac l\u1ea5y \u0111i. V\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 quen thu\u1ed9c, nh\u01b0 ly tr\u00e0 n\u00f3ng cu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y, g\u00f3c ph\u00f2ng th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c, b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea1c y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u0169ng l\u00e0 li\u1ec1u thu\u1ed1c ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \u201c B\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec l\u00fac y\u1ebfu m\u1ec1m nh\u1ea5t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn hay ch\u01b0a, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn m\u00e3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1eafc ta r\u1eb1ng: b\u00ecnh y\u00ean th\u1eadt ra lu\u00f4n \u1edf r\u1ea5t g\u1ea7n, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ta qu\u00ean nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        1. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1eadt ra r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u01a1n
          Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1eafc ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u to t\u00e1t, xa v\u1eddi hay nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f4i khi, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 m\u00e0 ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u01b0\u1edbt qua trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa c\u01a1m nh\u00e0 \u1ea5m n\u00f3ng, n\u01a1i ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tin nh\u1eafn h\u1ecfi han \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, khi\u1ebfn ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb t\u1edbi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1eefa cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          \u201c Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u00e0y mai s\u1ebd n\u1ea5u m\u00f3n g\u00ec, g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f4ng mong r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? V\u1eady n\u00ean, hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c d\u1eady.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, khi ta cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, bu\u00f4ng xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi lo \u00e2u v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1edf m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i th\u1eadt s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1eb3ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u1edbn lao, m\u00e0 \u1edf vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. V\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi ta t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh sau nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y d\u00e0i l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          IV. Phong c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft \u2013 \u0110i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb
          \u0110i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ee9c h\u00fat \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a T\u1edb l\u00e0 M\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 phong c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb\u201d. Gi\u1ecdng v\u0103n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 ba y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9, m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh. Khi \u0111\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u00ean g\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 \u2014 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ebb chia d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Th\u1ee9 hai, v\u0103n phong c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 mang t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. Nh\u1eefng trang vi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00f4 h\u1ed3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean s\u00e1o r\u1ed7ng. C\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua, nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n hoang mang, nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 v\u00e1 l\u1ea1i tr\u00e1i tim. S\u1ef1 m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c \u1ea5y khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u1ea5t tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u trong t\u1eebng c\u00e2u ch\u1eef khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u01a1i tr\u00fa \u1ea9n tinh th\u1ea7n. M\u1ed7i d\u00f2ng vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i th\u1edf thi\u1ec1n nh\u1eb9, gi\u00fap t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1eafng l\u1ea1i, b\u1edbt \u1ed3n \u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1edbt t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ed1t truy\u1ec7n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 trang n\u00e0o v\u00e0 v\u1eabn t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m d\u1eebng nh\u1ecf gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ch\u1eadt v\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m ngh\u1ec9, h\u00edt m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i d\u00e0i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          V. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ai?
          Ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai \u0111ang ch\u00f4ng ch\u00eanh tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111ang loay hoay t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecdc sinh \u2013 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, thi c\u1eed v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn quan tr\u1ecdng cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Nh\u1eefng trang vi\u1ebft nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1edbt n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, b\u1edbt \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3i \u201cgi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111i l\u00e0m, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f4ng s\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7y k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u00e0 va v\u1ea5p. Khi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec deadline, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m trong t\u1eebng c\u00e2u ch\u1eef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang stress, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, hay ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang \u201cch\u1eadt v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y\u201d, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111em l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb7t tay l\u00ean vai v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng sao, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ed3i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          V\u1edbi c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac r\u1ea3i r\u00e1c theo t\u1eebng m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng th\u1ea5m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eb7ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          N\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac qu\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc g\u1ed1i nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o v\u00e0 th\u1edf th\u1eadt kh\u1ebd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          VI. C\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n
          V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, Ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, m\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m th\u1eadt ch\u1eadm, th\u1eadt l\u00e2u, d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng. Khi \u0111\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh, k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i g\u1ee3i l\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong t\u1eebng trang vi\u1ebft: nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 t\u1ecf ra \u1ed5n, nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch khi kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y nhanh c\u00f2n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e3i loay hoay m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i \u201cm\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u00fang h\u1ea1n\u201d, ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh khi m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi t\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1eeba th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1eafc t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Kh\u00f4ng sao khi m\u00ecnh m\u1ec7t. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Kh\u00f4ng sao khi m\u00ecnh ch\u1eadm. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y theo ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Kh\u00f4ng sao khi m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a gi\u1ecfi. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o b\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch hay so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbn\u201d c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng ai, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh, th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 khi g\u1ea5p s\u00e1ch l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd n\u1eafm tay v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed4n th\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          VII. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u2013 B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i
          Khi kh\u00e9p l\u1ea1i Ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1edf l\u1ea1i trong t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tri\u1ebft l\u00fd ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hay l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean r\u1ea5t nh\u1eb9. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft ta ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ee7 th\u1ec9 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng sao \u0111\u00e2u, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1edbn ch\u1eadm.\u201d Gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng l\u1eb7ng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 ta th\u1edf v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 g\u1eedi g\u1eafm l\u00e0:
          B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u1edbn nhanh.
          B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u2013 \u0111\u00f4i khi mong manh, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00fang t\u00fang, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1n ch\u00f3t. Kh\u00f4ng ai quy \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd ngay khi v\u1eeba b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0 c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng theo nh\u1ecbp c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u00fap t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac ta \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i, m\u1ec7t, kh\u00f3c, hay mu\u1ed1n quay v\u1ec1 v\u1ea1ch xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ta v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean, d\u00f9 ch\u1eadm, d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng, \u0111\u1eb7t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7:
          \u201cM\u00ecnh v\u1eabn \u1ed5n. M\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u1edbn theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          T\u00f3m t\u1eaft b\u1edfi: Huy\u1ec1n Linh – Bookademy<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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