{"id":737,"date":"2025-12-26T01:37:22","date_gmt":"2025-12-26T01:37:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thuvien.thptmuongchieng.edu.vn\/?p=737"},"modified":"2025-12-26T01:37:22","modified_gmt":"2025-12-26T01:37:22","slug":"tom-tat-review-sach-ban-song-cho-ai-hanh-trinh-thuc-tinh-ban-than-giua-nhung-doi-thay-cua-cuoc-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thuvien.thptmuongchieng.edu.vn\/index.php\/2025\/12\/26\/tom-tat-review-sach-ban-song-cho-ai-hanh-trinh-thuc-tinh-ban-than-giua-nhung-doi-thay-cua-cuoc-doi\/","title":{"rendered":"[T\u00f3m T\u1eaft & Review S\u00e1ch] \u201cB\u1ea1n S\u1ed1ng Cho Ai?\u201d: H\u00e0nh Tr\u00ecnh Th\u1ee9c T\u1ec9nh B\u1ea3n Th\u00e2n Gi\u1eefa Nh\u1eefng \u0110\u1ed5i Thay C\u1ee7a Cu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1eddi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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I. Gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u chung
\u201cB\u1ea1n S\u1ed1ng Cho Ai?\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 \u2013 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1ec3 Tr\u1edf Th\u00e0nh Lu\u1eadt S\u01b0 Chuy\u00ean Nghi\u1ec7p. Tuy ra \u0111\u1eddi t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn ngh\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho sinh vi\u00ean ng\u00e0nh lu\u1eadt hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 ph\u00e1p l\u00fd. H\u01a1n c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n c\u1ea9m nang ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed7i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t c\u1eaft c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi: khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u1edf tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0. Qua nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eadt, nh\u1eefng l\u00e1t c\u1eaft ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p, nh\u1eefng va v\u1ea5p \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 m\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u2013 xem ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cho ai, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, v\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay ch\u01b0a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1ecdng v\u0103n c\u1ee7a L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn nh\u01b0ng \u1ea5m \u00e1p, \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh, \u0111\u00f4i khi tr\u1ea7m t\u01b0, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1eeba nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u1eeba s\u00e2u l\u1eafng. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang loay hoay t\u00ecm h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111ang b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u tr\u0103n tr\u1edf \u2013 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch h\u00ecnh b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. V\u1ec1 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u2013 L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng
    T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh BP Law. BP Law ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m: \u201c Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 doanh nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh – Bi\u1ebft c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, bi\u1ebft c\u00f9ng s\u1ebb chia\u201d, \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ph\u00e1p l\u00fd cho h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn doanh nh\u00e2n, doanh nghi\u1ec7p, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7t Nam.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Ngo\u00e0i h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1, Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 tr\u1ecdng t\u00e0i vi\u00ean, qu\u1ea3n t\u00e0i vi\u00ean, c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n ph\u00e1p l\u00fd cho doanh nghi\u1ec7p, gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean th\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea3ng, v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 trong nhi\u1ec1u talkshow d\u00e0nh cho sinh vi\u00ean lu\u1eadt. Anh c\u0169ng t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft vi\u1ebft b\u1ed9 s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1eb1m chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho sinh vi\u00ean lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    V\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu, Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u00e0nh vi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m kinh nghi\u1ec7m, t\u1eebng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p l\u00fd \u2013 nh\u01b0ng ph\u00eda sau nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 l\u00fd v\u00e0 lu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gom g\u00f3p qua nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng vi\u1ebft n\u00ean B\u1ea1n S\u1ed1ng Cho Ai?.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. Tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng
      Tri\u1ebft l\u00fd trong c\u00e1c t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng mang m\u00e0u s\u1eafc gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u hay \u201cgi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd\u201d. Anh vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u va v\u1ea5p v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. V\u1edbi anh, s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn ta t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 tin r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m g\u00e1nh thay cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

      B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, anh nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh: bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 d\u00e1m ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eb7ng kh\u00e1c nhau; tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, trung ni\u00ean hay tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc ri\u00eang v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o gi\u1ed1ng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t 21 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ch, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n: nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      1. V\u0103n phong v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3
        V\u0103n phong c\u1ee7a L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Anh kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb hoa m\u1ef9, kh\u00f4ng v\u00f2ng vo, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng tri\u1ebft l\u00fd cao si\u00eau, m\u00e0 vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3. M\u1ed7i c\u00e2u ch\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u to\u00e1t l\u00ean s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201c\u0111i nhi\u1ec1u, g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u, hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        Anh th\u01b0\u1eddng minh h\u1ecda b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc d\u1ec5 h\u00ecnh dung v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m. C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, m\u1ed7i tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p hay gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb m\u00e0 gi\u00e0u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a anh thu h\u00fat \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang t\u00ecm h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i, \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111ang c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        II. N\u1ed9i dung ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a s\u00e1ch
        Thay v\u00ec \u0111i s\u00e2u ph\u00e2n t\u00edch t\u1eebng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng trong 21 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ch, n\u1ed9i dung sau \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh. C\u00e1c nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1eeb tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc d\u1ec5 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft v\u00e0 li\u00ean h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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        1. Nh\u00f3m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 1: H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n (Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1 \u2013 7)
          1.1. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u2013 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 mang t\u00ean \u201ccu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\u201d
          \u201cCu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u?\u201d \u2013 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ea7y suy ng\u1eabm. Khi sinh ra, \u00edt ai bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ai, v\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ch\u00fang ta \u00edt khi t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: M\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng cho ai? M\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? D\u00f9 v\u1eady, L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng, d\u00f9 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 sinh ra m\u00ecnh. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u (L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          1.2. Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u2013 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c
          T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng suy ngh\u0129 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1ed1ng thay b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra. Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, bi\u1ebft l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 m\u1edf ra h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i m\u1edbi cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          1.3. T\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n
          Theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd hay ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai, bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Khi c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb d\u1eabn d\u1eaft hay t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, t\u1ea1o s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i gi\u00fap v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          1.4. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb \u2013 \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n
          Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m. Theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, ch\u00ednh giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac d\u1ec5 s\u1eeda sai nh\u1ea5t, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay ch\u1ea1y theo nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n, \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 sau: y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, b\u00e1o hi\u1ebfu cho cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 h\u00e3y d\u00e1m th\u1eed, d\u00e1m tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 d\u00e1m ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          1.5. \u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai?\u201d \u2013 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t
          Theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai?\u201d l\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch l\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u00e1nh l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n h\u00f3a hay m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng h\u00f3a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hay v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u00f2a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Khi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          1.6 \u2013 1.7. S\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7?
          \u201cS\u1ed1ng cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u00edch k\u1ef7 th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt,\u201d t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi mu\u00f4n thu\u1edf, nh\u01b0ng L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: s\u1ed1ng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7; ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ri\u00eang, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng xo\u00e1y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u00f3m ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn ra: s\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          1. Nh\u00f3m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 2: Ngh\u1ecbch l\u00fd v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi (Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 8 \u2013 14)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

            2.1. \u201c\u0110\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh?\u201d
            \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1eafc b\u00e9n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u00e1ch. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i suy ng\u1eabm: ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 hy sinh cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, v\u1eady ai s\u1ebd l\u00e0m thay b\u1ea1n? Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ai v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m th\u1ebf mong \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hi\u1ec3u, tha th\u1ee9 hay g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c thay m\u00ecnh. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            2.2. \u0110am m\u00ea \u2013 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m
            M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0: “theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111am m\u00ea l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i”. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, \u0111am m\u00ea ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9t. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t, thi\u1ebfu s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            2.3. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng
            Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 nu\u1ed1t. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai m\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Ch\u1ec9 khi d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ta m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            2.4. V\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 \u2013 m\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u2013 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi
            Nh\u00f3m ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p trong \u0111\u1eddi: th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i, m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin, sai l\u1ea7m, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u1eeb kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 bi k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Qua \u0111\u00f3, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc quan tr\u1ecdng: \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00ec ai c\u0169ng mang trong m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i ri\u00eang. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, b\u01b0\u1edbc qua v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            2.5. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n
            Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y, L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, nh\u01b0 giao ti\u1ebfp, quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t: nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, khi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng. Bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00fang n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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            1. Nh\u00f3m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 3: H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an (Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 15 \u2013 21)
              3.1. K\u1ebb th\u00f9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai?
              L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh: “\u0110\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebb th\u00f9, m\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n.” K\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u201cphi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n, \u00edch k\u1ef7, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

              3.2. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u an nhi\u00ean
              Sau nh\u1eefng va \u0111\u1eadp, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb gi\u00fap t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n an nhi\u00ean: bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee7, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, bi\u1ebft bu\u00f4ng, bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. An nhi\u00ean, theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n h\u01a1n. Khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1edbt b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay ham mu\u1ed1n qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh y\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              3.3. Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean
              Tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi: con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u00e0, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c ch\u1eefng l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe d\u1ea7n suy gi\u1ea3m. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng chia s\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201cch\u00edn\u201d nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. Nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              3.4. L\u00fd do ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u1edf tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean
              \u1ede tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n hay ganh \u0111ua v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau. N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u0169ng gi\u00fap ta s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, duy tr\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, m\u1ed7i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u00ednh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba an nhi\u00ean, v\u1eeba tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              3.5. Khi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0 \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm
              Nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 mang m\u00e0u s\u1eafc b\u00ecnh y\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u00e2u l\u1eafng. L\u00ea B\u00ecnh Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng, “nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eadm l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1eabm l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.” \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 qua, nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p ta tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac ch\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u00e1m \u1ea3nh: r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng cho ai, v\u00e0 li\u1ec7u cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              III. C\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              B\u1ea1n S\u1ed1ng Cho Ai? kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 soi chi\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n qua t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi: tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u00edch k\u1ef7, kh\u00f4ng ai ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u1eafc t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u201chi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng quen thu\u1ed9c\u201d: khi th\u1ee9 g\u00ec hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, ta d\u1ec5 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, th\u1eddi gian, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi c\u1ea3nh t\u1ec9nh d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              IV. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u2013 B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Sau khi g\u1ea5p cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra ba \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng thay ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh; kh\u00f4ng cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc ri\u00eang: tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb loay hoay, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, trung ni\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 chi\u00eam nghi\u1ec7m. S\u1ed1ng cho m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi \u00edch k\u1ef7; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c hay l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecdc \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              T\u00f3m t\u1eaft b\u1edfi: Huy\u1ec1n Linh – Bookademy<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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